Psychology of Kink and BDSM

The most important part of being a Dominatrix (and the best ones) is understanding the psychology of kink and BDSM. In a previous blog I talked about the importance of understanding each submissives psychology…knowing what drives thier submissiveness and/or kink will help make sure both partners get what they are looking for.

Learning about the submissive psychology has also given me insights into my Domme psychology. I have been interested BDSM for a while, but there has definately been an up tick in the last few years. After learning about the psychology of kink, talking to my teacher/mentor, and other Dommes I have had some insights into my own Domme psychology.

It’s almost cliche… after 2 major health scares (including a diagnosis of a chronic illness), I felt out of control. I found it empowering to fall further into my Dominatrix interests. The feeling of control I have over my submissives serves to appeal to my need for feeling control, during a time in my life when I feel out of control.

I love lounging around in my robe and drinking champagne, while my slave scrubs my shower. The power I feel, exerting my dominance is exhilarating!!

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